Did It Backwards! The Joys and Surprises of Engagement Ring Purchases
Hey everyone! Welcome to our beloved engagement ring community, where we dive deep into the beautiful world of gems, cuts, and, of course, the unforgettable stories attached to your engagement rings. Today, let’s take a fun twist by discussing a unique approach that so many couples are adopting: the “backwards engagement ring” journey!
What Does “Did It Backwards” Mean?
More and more people are embracing unconventional paths to engagement. For some, this means choosing their own rings, while for others, it might involve linchpin moments that happen after the proposal rather than before. Whether you’ve been part of a backward journey or have plans to do so in the future, sharing your experience can offer valuable insights and foster lively discussions!
What’s Your Story?
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Self-Picked Sparklers: Have you or someone you know picked out an engagement ring for yourself? Perhaps you knew exactly what you wanted or wanted to steer clear of common expectations. Share how it felt to take the reins in your own engagement story!
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The Surprise Factor: For those who chose to get engaged without a ring first—maybe a spontaneous weekend getaway turned into an unforgettable proposal. Did you choose the ring together afterward? How did that experience shape your relationship and discussions?
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Custom Creations: Did you design the ring after the proposal? This growing trend allows couples to create something truly representative of their love story. Tell us about your design process! What gems and settings resonated with you?
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Learning Along the Way: Share what you’ve learned about different ring styles, gemstone characteristics, and their meanings. Did you dive into the world of ethical diamonds or explore alternative gems like moissanite or lab-created stones? This is a great space to compare notes!
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Future Purchases: For those still in the planning phase, what’s on your wishlist? Are you leaning towards vintage cuts, modern styles, or perhaps something completely unique?
Tips and Recommendations
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Engagement Ring Basics: For those new to the engagement process, it can feel overwhelming. Consider sharing tips you learned on how to navigate gem quality, setting styles, and choosing the right size.
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Photography Magic: As you share your rings, why not include your favorite shots? Showing off your sparkle increases engagement (pun intended!) and allows everyone to enjoy the beauty of each unique piece.
A Place for Every Journey
This community is a safe space for showcasing your engagement moments and offering insights to those on similar journeys. We’d love for you to get involved! Feel free to comment with your stories, photos, questions, and thoughts. After all, engagement rings are more than just jewelry—they encapsulate personal narratives and cherished memories.
So, let’s hear it! Did you or someone you know do it backwards? What was your experience like? Let’s spark a conversation and learn from each other!
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Green sapphire and green diamonds in the band. We both love green and it’s a nod to ancestry on both sides (my Irish and his Pakistani).
Great choice of shape on the Moss agate, this is something a fairy queen would wear, and it’s beautiful! Congratulations
The engagement ring and wedding band pair perfectly and really enhance each other! Congrats!
Beautiful! Congratulations!
Very pretty.
Very pretty 😍
Is that moss agate?
What I meant by “did it backwards” because I never got a proposal. But I got an engagement ring a week before our wedding. Did not get a whole proposal. And I wanted to see other non diamond rings that were different