So Sad No One Commented on My Engagement Ring 🙁
Hey everyone,
I hope you’re all having a fantastic day! I wanted to take a moment to share something that’s been on my mind lately and hopefully spark some engaging conversation in our beloved ring community.
Recently, I posted a picture of my engagement ring and—brace yourselves—no one commented! I know how crazy that sounds in a place where we celebrate love and beautiful jewelry, but it’s made me reflect on something deeper: the connection we all share over these stunning pieces.
Why Do We Share Our Rings?
For many of us, engagement rings symbolize not just a promise of love but also our unique styles, personal stories, and the journeys we’ve taken with our partners. Each ring has its own personality—whether it’s a classic solitaire, a vintage halo, or a modern three-stone setting. When we share our rings, we’re not only showing off our taste but also inviting others into our love stories.
The Story Behind My Ring
Let me share a little about my ring! I opted for a classic round brilliant cut in a delicate rose gold setting. The choice holds sentimental value because my fiancé and I first bonded over our shared love of vintage-inspired jewelry. The ring isn’t just a piece of jewelry; it’s a conversation starter about our relationship and all the little moments that led us here.
Now, I’d love to hear from you!
- How did you choose your engagement ring? Did you lean towards a specific style, or was it more about what felt right in the moment?
- What’s your favorite part about your ring? Is it the stone, the setting, or perhaps the craftsmanship that makes it so special?
- Have you experienced the same thing? Maybe you’ve shared your rings and felt a bit underwhelmed by the reception. What do you think it says about our community?
A Call for Connection
I think it’s vital that we support one another in celebrating these milestones. Each comment, each like, is a little boost of joy that validates our experiences and choices. So, let’s change that!
Let’s create a space where we can uplift each other and celebrate the unique stories behind each engagement ring. If you, too, have faced crickets on your beautiful ring posts, don’t let it discourage you! This community is all about sharing, learning, and connecting.
Time to Show Off!
Below, I’d love for everyone to share their engagement rings, no matter the style or story. If you’ve commented or liked posts before, have you thought about how your interaction made the poster feel? Let’s make it our mission to spread a wave of positivity, celebration, and awe for each other’s stunning rings!
Can’t wait to see all your gorgeous rings and hear the stories behind them!
With love,
[Your Name]
i personally have never liked heart shaped jewelry, but this is so so pretty. the cut of the stone is STUNNING and i love the paired stones on the sides. they compliment the heart shape soooo much!!! i also love that it has 7 prongs indicating its very secure (: your partner did an amazing job!!
I think heart shape is so unique & I love unique rings! This is gorgeous!!
It’s very pretty! I love the combination of the different cuts, they go so well together.
I usually hate heart shaped diamonds but this is actually so stunning!!! it looks so pretty on your hand!!
some ppl just don’t like commenting if they aren’t sure it’s an e-ring!!! i’ve noticed ppl assume less and less that someone is wearing an e-ring, no matter how much it looks like one, bc they don’t want it to be awkward if it’s not lol.
your ring is absolutely lovely and suits you so well!! i love the heart shape, so so so romantic and fun. congratulations on your engagement and your beautiful ring!!
Not to invalidate your disappointment, but you have your whole life ahead of you to receive compliments on your ring. It’s super pretty btw
I loooove heart shaped jewelry. My engagement ring isn’t heart shaped but I recently ordered a heart shaped moissanite ring on Etsy because I’ve been wanting one so bad! Your ring is absolutely stunning, seriously a dream ring! Not just the diamond but the whole design!
I think if you actually TOLD people you are engaged, you would get a lot of gushing over it. People don’t want to just assume. The fact they are ogling it is telling you they are just waiting for you to say something first. I’m not a heart shaped diamond gal myself, but this one is beautiful. The side stones really complete the look!
Did you bring it up to anyone that you are engaged and have you shown anyone the ring? You are going to need to be the ice-breaker. I go around telling people stuff if I want them to know. People feel more comfortable if there is a soft opening.
Have you announced your engagement to them? They might be waiting for you to tell them before they say anything
They either don’t want to assume you are engaged or are following the rule “if you don’t have anything nice to say don’t say anything at all.”
not everyone is going to assume you’re engaged especially choosing a less traditional style ring. plenty of people wear jewelry on their ring finger including myself. they’re noticing but waiting for you to say something, might be awkward for them to congratulate you if it winds up not being an engagement ring.
> I love my e-ring and it’s everything I ever wanted
Sounds like the needed approbation is all there.
This is SO PRETTY! Your coworkers probably just aren’t commenting because you haven’t told them you’re engaged and they don’t want to ask in case you’re not!
Do they know you’re engaged? I would have assumed it’s just a cute ring you got for yourself since it’s not a traditional / common shape. It’s really pretty btw! Congratulations!
Im glad this fits your vibe so well! If I was your coworker id be nervous to comment on it in general and this one could be taken as a promise ring or something too which might be another reason people hesitate.
Pick me…pick me…hey everyone nobody is gushing over me.
Girl, people lose 100lbs and nobody comments on it. I think you are asking for too much if you want people to notice a ring lol
It’s a really beautiful ring but unless you intentionally mention it, people are going to be polite and not ask.
If you haven’t said anything they prob think it would be rude to assume or say something unprompted in case you’re just wearing it for fun
Looks amazing on you and so cute and pretty!
I for one absolutely love it! I’ve always liked heart shaped stones myself but sadly don’t have any of my own 😿
How old are you? *Tell* them you’re engaged and then they will talk to you about it and compliment your ring.
Personally, I perceive heart-shaped to be more costume-y or for fun. I wouldn’t guess it’s an engagement ring.
I absolutely adore your ring 😍
It doesnt matter what other people think about YOUR ring. Its for YOU and your fiance, what matters is both of you like it. Other people will like, hate, love, and have no opinion on it, its just a ring to them.
Its not just a ring to you, and its special to you. Who cares that no one asked about your ring? Be happy about the ring! Get a coffee or something and watch it sparkle when you pick up the cup. That ring is for you, no one else.
I know its nice to feel like they’re invested or they care and I’m sure you wanted people to fawn over it, anyone would. But it does not matter if people love or hate it. It matters if you love it. And honestly? Coworkers typically arent the type to gush about rings together. Thats a best friend activity or a close friend activity. Wait until your friends have seen it irl, then you’ll probably get a better reaction. And if you don’t, well screw their opinion its your ring not theirs.
I loveeeee !!!!!
Unless you say you are engaged, most co workers will likely just mind their own business.
It’s really pretty. Heart shaped isn’t timeless, and a lot of people don’t prefer heart shaped engagement rings. There is probably a reason why you didn’t receive compliments.. it’s because the people who are in your circle don’t like it. With that being said.. why are you upset if this was your dream ring? Other people’s opinion shouldn’t matter whatsoever. I personally don’t like colored gem stone engagement rings… I have seen plenty, and I’ve never complimented one. But who cares what I think.. it’s not my ring. I have a 3 stone engagement ring. One of my husbands friends (female) actually said “wow that’s not an engagement ring, that’s a ring you get at your 30th wedding anniversary as a token from your husband as a left effort not to leave him”……….. so I mean would you rather hear that or not get any comments/compliments at all?
this is the classiest heart shaped ring i’ve ever seen
People don’t normally comment on other people’s engagement rings outside of the initial engagement announcement
Babe mine didn’t say anything either until I mentioned my fiancé proposed. And then people started coming up to me specifically to see the ring when word got out. Your engagement ring is so pretty! I bet everyone has noticed but no one is tryna be awkward.
You have converted me to a heart shaped diamond. I might ask for this for an anniversary – saving this post! You have a genuinely gorgeous ring. I think it’s chic!
I LOVE heart shaped jewelry. Beautiful!!
Why to you need external validation from others about your ring? Are you insecure about how it looks which is why you want others to comment on it?
Girl this is so cuteeeeeeeeeeeeee
Ok I must admit, I normally don’t like a heart shaped ring… but this just changed my mind!!! Very elegant and suits your hand perfectly. This is a stunner!!! Congrats on your engagement too.
I love heart jewelry! I think your ring is beautiful… and the band is very cool! What cut is the first side diamonds?
This is sooo lovely. My engagement ring is also heart shaped 💕 Congratulations!
i love it!!! heart shaped jewelry is underrated. your ring has so much character! its beautiful
I think heart shaped diamonds are just darling! Love your ring 🩷😊
i love it! i know heart diamonds are not favored here but it’s just so cutesy & endearing to me!
i would be happy with a heart diamond 💎 🩷 yours is gorgeous!
That is everything and your nails look gorgeous too! Such a beautiful cut diamond! Congrats!!
This is so pretty!! My grandma had a heart shaped stone in her ring so I’ll always have a special fondness for them. We had such similar nails for our engagements too! Clearly you have good taste and they’re just jealous ❤️
Poor thing!
It’s trash, that’s why.
Get a life