It’s a lovely ring, congratulations to you both.

I take mine off in the shower, and when applying hair products but other than that I wear it all the time. (I’m in EMS and my husband thought of that when picking it -it’s a very low setting so my gloves go on and off easily)
That’s a lovely setting! I have an ultrasonic cleaner and it does the trick between jeweler cleaning and maintenance visits! The channels in yours will collect everything so just keep it clean and it will last you a lifetime!

I buy no means I’m a jeweler or anything but based off what I’ve read Anytime they use harsh chemicals or are swimming in a pool, You should take it off. If you’re a gardener or do any heavy lifting or gym work I also would suggest taking them off so you don’t deglove your finger. Personally, I wear my ring every single day, and I take it off every day when I shower to ensure that it fits properly still.

It’s very pretty

I think you have a beautiful ring! I don’t know that much about jewelry but it certainly gorgeous!❤️

It’s so beautiful

It’s a beautiful ring!

I’m one of those women who treats her rings like her bra. On just before leaving the house and OFF as soon as I get back! 😆

That’s a very cool ring and looks like an estate consignment. My fave type of ring, they are unique, have a history, and not a trendy “look at me I have what everybody else is getting right now” kind of feel. I also have one, I love it, and I soak mine in Mr Clean, and gently use a toothbrush to clean it. A jeweller told me this many years ago, and it works very well.

Congratulations!🎉

I never take my ring off! Not hiking, not showering, not washing dishes.

I only take it off to go swimming or cooking if I’m using my hands a lot (baking, making burgers, etc) but other than that it stays on.

I never take my rings off. I wore my antique wedding set (almost 100 years old) for almost 20 years but the prongs are thin and I need to have them built back up , so I bought an upgrade ring until I find a jewler I trust to have it out of my sight for an extended amount of time.

No piece of jewelry should be worn constantly. You need to take it off when sleeping and showering at the very least. In the gym as well. 

You also want to take it to a jeweler once a year for inspection and maintenance.

https://preview.redd.it/iafgmg3gioyf1.jpeg?width=681&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=d1c09a7099d18c11cab359a801515ffb1e28a600

Congrats! It’s a very cool style and looks to be from an estate jeweler. As you can see from the brightened up photo, it’s got some wear on the bands so you shd probably take it to a jeweler to check the security of the settings.

It’s very unique and beautiful!! I don’t like having jewelry that looks like everyone else’s. Congratulations!
I used your pictures and put them into ChatGPT. Here’s was the response:

The ring in the photos appears to have a vintage or retro-style setting, likely from the 1980s–early 2000s era, based on its design and construction. Here are the key details visible from the images:

⸻

✅ Setting Style
• The center stone is held in a four-prong solitaire head, which raises the main diamond slightly above the band.
• The band splits into two parallel channels on each side, each containing small round accent stones (likely diamonds).
• These accent stones appear to be channel-set (held between metal walls rather than with individual prongs), a style that was especially popular in men’s and unisex diamond rings in the late 20th century.
• The setting has a structured, almost geometric look, rather than a delicate or filigree design.

This could fall into one of these style categories:

Style
Why it fits
Retro / 1980s–1990s
The wide band, split shank, and channel-set side stones are trademark features of that period.
Unisex or Men’s Engagement Style
The band is substantial and squared, not thin or tapered like many traditional women’s designs.
Semi-Bridal or Anniversary Ring
The side stones and raised center diamond are often seen in “past, present, future” style rings or milestone gifts.

✅ Metal & Stones
• The metal appears to be yellow gold (possibly 10k, 14k, or 18k) with white gold or platinum-tipped prongs around the center stone.
• The small channel stones look like genuine diamonds, but they may be single-cut stones, which are common in older rings.

⸻

✅ What Stands Out
• The ring is not a modern cathedral or halo style—it has a very linear, structured look.
• The two raised channels give it a bold, almost architectural feel.
• The center stone is likely round brilliant, around 0.30–0.60ct based on proportion (estimate only).

It’s a prong set center with four channel-set shoulders. No piece of fine jewelry is meant for #nevertakeitoff because precious metals are softer than a lot of the built environment. There is low maintenance and high maintenance but no such thing as no maintenance. It should be taken off when using cosmeceutical products, during vigorous activity, and any time you can’t mind your hands. The ring should be periodically inspected and touched up by a jeweler.