The Heartfelt Choice: A Mother’s Ring in My Engagement
Hey, beautiful ring community! 💍
I’m beyond excited to share a moment that’s filled me with love and nostalgia. Recently, my partner proposed with a stunning ring that holds a special piece of my heart: my mother’s ring. It’s a ring I’ve always adored, not just for its breathtaking design but also for the memories and emotions it encapsulates.
The Significance of a Mother’s Ring
When my partner chose to reference my mother’s ring, it felt like they were honoring my roots, my family, and the woman who’s shaped so much of who I am. Rings, especially those passed down from generation to generation, carry stories that go beyond their sparkling beauty. They can symbolize enduring love, legacy, and the values we cherish.
Sharing the Ring
Here’s a peek at the ring that’s now a part of my life’s journey:
Isn’t it stunning? The combination of the intricate design and the sentimental value just takes my breath away!
Community Discussion: Your Thoughts?
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Do you have a family heirloom?
- I’d love to hear about any rings that hold special significance for you. Was there a story or meaning behind your engagement ring?
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What’s your dream ring?
- For those still searching, what kind of stone, cut, or setting would you choose?
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Learning About Your Gems:
- Let’s dive into different gemstones, cuts, and settings! I’d love to hear about your favorites or any new trends you’re excited about.
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Future Proposals:
- For those contemplating the perfect proposal, what elements are you considering? Is it tradition, personalization, or perhaps a surprise twist?
Feel free to share your thoughts, stories, or even a picture of your precious rings! This community is all about celebrating love and the beautiful symbols of that love. Let’s spark some engaging conversations and inspire each other along the way! 💖
Can’t wait to hear from all of you!
I can’t see my post explanation so re-typed this… but maybe it is there? IDK, i’m bad at reddit.
Mom’s on top, mine on botttom.
Though I gave my partner general preferences (gold; elongated stones; *if* a gemstone, an emerald but I like diamonds too), it was all him choosing to go for sentimentality – made even lovelier to find out that his choice also references my father, who designed my mom’s ring on his own. And on top of that, *even more sentimental* when my mom and dad shared that my mom actually cracked her first emerald (an early lesson in emerald care for me!), and my dad has a signet ring inset with part of her original stone. So we all have emeralds!
My partner worked with HerRock Jewelry, based in New York though he worked virtually from abroad with them. He recommends them highly, especially if you’re open to lab diamonds which they promote. They do custom work, as well as more “off the rack” designs, though everything is hand made to each individual stone. We will be returning to William and Bree for our wedding bands.
**Specs for reference:** main stone is a 2.89ct Zambian emerald cut emerald, 9.4 x 6.5 mm; side stones are brilliant cut trapezoid lab diamonds, combined total weight of 0.51cts. Ring and center stone double prongs are 14k yellow gold, with platinum prongs and general setting support. Size 5.75, though I think I’m actually a 5.5 in the end.
*N.B. We are aware the shank is quite slender at just 1.5mm,* but it was a look I liked and the setting is otherwise quite robust; the final, specific shank spec was chosen by the jeweler who my partner trusted. We had also discussed the downside of emeralds before he chose to go that direction – how soft a stone it is – and agreed that even apart from its less-than-ideal qualities for everyday wear-and-tear, since I’m quite active anyways, long-term my daily ring will likely just be a silicone ring even if we had gone with a diamond. Thus, he decided it was perfectly acceptable to approach this as a specialty/occasion ring… Though now I have it on my hand, I’m so in love I want a replica to wear all the time! Long-term, we will likely have my wedding band (simple gold) welded to the ring as my mom had done.
Your fiancé hit the nail on the head! So sweet! Congratulations!
I love this!
Absolutely beautiful ring but made even more so by the story behind it 🥹 my god that emerald tho is incredible, the colour is stunning!
Such a thoughtful partner. Congratulations on your engagement 🎉xx
TO BE KNOWN, TO BE CONSIDERED 😭❤️this is so beyond touching and sweet and considerate. I just…I’m speechless. he did amazing and I’m so happy you’re happy and you found a partner who knows you like this <3
the ring is STUNNING. and to have one similar to your mom’s? 😭😭😭
Absolutely stunning! Congrats!
My heart!! This is stunning and beautiful. The fact that he knew how much you loved hers to make them similar. You will always be reminded of your parents love and the love of your fiance whenever you look down.
Beautiful ring and wow what a a fiance you have. Just seeing the hands together made me teary, the consideration that went into it and just looking at life and just how beautiful yet short it is.
Congratulations to you both and wishing you the best 2025 and many many years to come
This is so thoughtful & beautiful. Wow
So pretty, congratulations
I bet your mom also feels soecial and loved by the both of you rn. So sweet congrats OP!
A considerate, thoughtful partner!! Congratulations!!
🔥Lucky 👏🏼
to be loved is to be known 🥰
Soooooooo freaking gorgeous!! What a great fella! That pic of yours and your mom’s hands is something so special. And those double prongs on your ring setting the whole thing off!!! Congratulations on your engagement to such a sweet guy!!!
Gorgeous! Even more special since your partner put so much heart & soul into it!
This is one of the most beautiful rings and stories I’ve seen on Reddit. Congrats OP!
This is the most beautiful story I’ve seen here.
I’m beyond happy for *all* of you.
This is a treasure for all time and should be enjoyed and celebrated for generations to come.
Both rings are stunning!
Congratulations!! 🤍🤍
Oooooo!! 🤩🤩Two lucky women with incredibly thoughtful partners!❤️❤️
This is the cutest thing ever 🥲♥️
I am in love with the green stone!!!!!!
Emeralds are THE BEST!! Congratulations
Oh goodness! Beautiful in so many ways. So wonderful to have so many loves on your life 💚
I love it!!!! I have a sapphire and love the colored stones so much. He gave it such a gorgeous modern feel!