Would You Ever Give This Ring as a Gift? Let’s Talk Engagement Rings!
Engagement rings have long been a symbol of love, commitment, and personal style. As we gather in this community dedicated to celebrating these beautiful tokens, I want to invite you all to discuss a rather thought-provoking question: Would you ever give this specific ring as a gift?
The Power of the Ring
Engagement rings are not just pieces of jewelry; they carry significant emotional weight and symbolize the unique bond between two people. Whether it’s a stunning solitaire, an intricately designed halo, or a vintage piece that tells its own story, each ring evokes feelings and memories that go far beyond their monetary value.
Show Off Your Engagement Rings
Before we dive deep into the discussion, feel free to share pictures of your own engagement rings! What made you choose that particular design? What do you love most about it? Sharing visuals will not only inspire others but will set the stage for our money conversations.
Start the Conversation
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The Personal Touch: When gifting an engagement ring, the thought behind the choice is often what makes it special. Would you consider giving a ring that might not perfectly match your partner’s style, as an act of love and surprise? Or do you believe that only a ring that reflects their personal taste should be given?
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The Gemstone Debate: Could you envision giving a colored gemstone instead of the traditional diamond? What about a moissanite or lab-grown diamond? The rising popularity of alternative stones opens a whole new world of possibilities. What are your thoughts on this?
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Cut and Clarity: Does the cut of the stone matter more to you than its clarity or carat weight? Sharing your preferences could help others understand what makes an engagement ring truly exceptional.
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Settings and Styles: From vintage-inspired styles to modern minimalist looks, what settings do you believe hold the most sentimental value? Would you consider giving a ring that has been passed down in your family? What kind of stories do those rings hold?
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Budget Considerations: Financial factors can be a real discussion point. Some might argue that the sentiment behind the ring is what matters most, while others may champion a specific budget. How do you personally navigate your engagement ring must-haves while keeping an eye on budget constraints?
Conclusion: Join the Discussion!
Engagement rings are a beautiful expression of love and commitment, but they also represent personal choices and values that can spark lively conversations. So, would you ever give this particular ring as a gift? Let’s hear your thoughts—whether you have a ring to showcase or insights to share about past or future purchases.
Dive into the comments below with your stories, photos, and opinions. Together, let’s explore the fascinating world of engagement rings! 💍✨
Unless I had someone who I knew wanted a ring specifically like this, I would not give it as an engagement ring. This is the type of ring that would be specific to the person. So if you couldn’t confirm the recipient favors this type of ring, I wouldn’t propose with it.
There’s two separate questions here, giving it as a gift (in the heading), giving it as an engagement ring (last sentence of post). Could you please clarify?
I think it’s a really cool ring with beautiful sentiment but I would be confused as hell if this is what I got proposed to with. Doesn’t mean it isn’t special, just not what I envision as an engagement ring
It‘s definitely a cool vintage piece but not a pretty ring to wear imo, and a pretty engagement ring even less so. I wouldn’t gift it to anyone who hasn’t expressed their genuine interest in it, let alone propose with it
It’s beautiful, looks like having the world on your finger
If you think your future wife would like it, give it to her as a beautiful birthday present. You could also just tell her you wanted to show her something, show it to her, and if she loves it, tell her you want her to have it. If she seems ambivalent, just put it away.
Would I gift it? Sure.
Would I gift it as an engagement ring? No.
I agree with the other replies here but one thing I’ll add is that silver isn’t a great idea for an engagement metal. It tarnishes easily, and it is prone to scratching, denting, and bending. It’s not strong enough for every day extended wear.
Unless the person expressed a preference for this style of ring, I would not. It’s more of a cocktail/middle finger ring.
You mention giving it as an engagement gift, and I’m not sure I know what that is (unless you’re referring to the ring you propose with?)
It’s very much a unique and polarizing statement piece.
The people who would like it will LOVE it, the people who don’t will end the relationship over receiving it.
If it’s not obvious that it would fit someone’s tastes, then it doesn’t fit their taste.
This is one that you’d have to show your partner and ask directly. A gift? Maybe. Engagement ring? Maybe, maybe not. The ring is cool, but it’s far too unique to assume any given person would happily receive it.
This is a very particular taste. Only give it if you know the person receiving it likes this style.
It’s gorgeous, and personally I would be thrilled to receive something like this as a gift. I would wear it often – on my right hand. However, I would not suggest it as an engagement ring. Not unless your partner had explicitly expressed that they definitely wanted a non-traditional engagement ring, with an opaque, dark stone.
This ring is person specific. I would wear it as a piece of jewelry but not as my engagement ring. It’s really cool and unique!
I would wear the shit out of that ring. It goes perfectly with my moonstone. Feel free to gift it to me if you want! I absolutely love it.
No. Maybe as a gift to a friend who expressed they loved it or had an “out there” style, but I wouldn’t assume someone would like it right away. It’s an odd ring which is fine, but it doesn’t seem like an engagement ring at all.
Nothing should be given as an engagement ring unless you’re sure your partner will like it, specially something so “untraditional” and conspicuous.
Not an engagement ring but it is beautiful!! Reminds me of a nebula
Hard no unless she wants this type of ring.
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Absolutely not
The ring is supposed to be purchased with your girlfriend/future spouse’s desires at the top of mind. You’re supposed to get them the ring that THEY want. I don’t think most women would want an engagement ring like this, sorry.
Talk to your partner and learn what they actually want.
But it’s a sick ring – you should wear it!
I’d like to add that Pietersite seems to have a Mohs of 6 to 7, which is in the moonstone to amethyst range, which makes it pretty soft and scratchable for a daily wear ring. Pietersite would be better suited for earrings, or a necklace, or a special occasion ring rather than an engagement ring, which most people like to wear every day.
On a side note, petersite is not hard or stable enough for an engagement ring.
I’m a gemologist, so I would definitely want petersite in my collection. Would I want this to be my engagement ring? Hard no. Has your significant other said that they are interested in this particular stone?
You’d really need to know whom you’re giving it to – would they like it?
For my engagement ring, I selected blue goldstone. Before we got engaged our original plan was to go to one of those mining sites around the country and dig. First stone we find would be set for my engagement ring. He got very ill and I decided on the blue goldstone because it just looked so beautiful. So you really need to know the individual that you intend to either gift it to or propose to.
As a gift, yes. As an engagement ring? No. Even if there was a tear jerker story to go with it, I still couldn’t see it as an engagement ring
You don’t “gift” engagement rings. Don’t conflate the two scenarios. If it is a gift for someone who was recently engaged, then sure, but you’re in the wrong sub.
But asking someone to marry you isn’t giving them a gift. You’re making a commitment to that person.
As for the engagement ring itself, only you know the person you’re proposing to. I personally wouldn’t be thrilled with it as an engagement ring, but it’s awesome as a regular ring; however you’re not proposing to me so what does my opinion matter?
Absolutely NOT.